She is a pretty girl, a pretty sister of mine, an adorable sister.
Her beauty is hard to explain through words, you can only feel it and realize it when you are close to her.
She loves shopping, hang out with family, dearly boyfriend, friends, and her *38empire* sisters, and enjoy every moment with everyone she treasures.
She is an ambitious person who never say never to pursue her dream to be an outstanding lawyer in future.
She has the determination to be a successful lawyer since young.
She has the quality to be a good lawyer.
In order to realize her dream, she pursue her A-level, went through college time, and fly to UK for further study in law. She is so ready to take on the challenge to realize her dream.
After a year of higher level education, it's time for an assessment for what she has done for the past year. Despite of her hard work, she did not get what she expected. She is sad and down. I wish I could be there with her, when she is hopeless and need someone to take care of her. I might not be able to give her what she wants, but I can be her listener at least. Sit down and listen to her patiently - comfort her.
To Jyy Huey:
My dear, I am not hoping you to fully recover in just a few hours or days...I understand it is hard to pick up yourself after the disappointment. I might not totally experience the same disappointment like yours, but seeing a smile on your is the only thing your *38 sis hope to hear from you. We care and love you.
Dear, I totally agree with the angel that "things u learn from all your hardwork will never be taken away". The materials that you have learned are all your assets in fact. Paper (result) is just a physical assessment to test your performance on the spot, it will not last if a person does not practice it always.
However, the only thing that last forever and belongs to you - is your knowledge. - no one can take away your knowledge from you.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out" - Robert Collier
"A failure establishes only this, that our determination to succeed was not strong enough." - John Christian Boree
Dear, you have the determination to continue with the game. In fact, I admire your determination since high school. I believe everyone has a dream, but not everyone ready to admit it and decided not to go for it. However, you did amazingly! You are halfway through, my dear. Be disciplined and keep going...You are the master of your mind, don't let it take control on you. You have the ability to success, trust yourself and don't let down by the result.
Treat the result as a feedback for your hard work. If you do not succeed this time, the feedback gives you a hint to try out another way. IF there is a will, there is always a way just in front of you. Depends on you whether to go for it or not. High achievers always go for it, they always take more routes than others to reach their goals. They are not success at once, but they have been through difficulties more than once.
Be patient and keep continue with your positive attitude (put in more efforts), the payoff might be greater than what you think of. Ask yourself if you have committed enough to your work, be consistent, commit to constant and never-ending improvement. Give yourself a peaceful mind, decide on what you are going to do next, what you would like to improve on. Then focus your energy on those goals. Always remember it is not always going to be easy, be ready for the next challenge. But you face the challenge with RIGHT thinking this time, knowing how to pick up yourself and continue to take on the path again and again. The longer you persist the more likely your success. (You might disagree with this last point at the moment since you have doubt on persistent hard work - "who say hard work and perseverance will lead you to success???" )
But I hope you will get through it soon. I can't change your mind, but I do hope for the best thing for you.
Take care, my sweetheart. Give you a big hug to show my concern to you.
WE WILL ALWAYS BE THERE TO WALK DOWN THE ROAD WITH YOU.
NEVER LEAVE YOU ALONE ALONG THE PATH.
You will be fine, my dear. You are a tough, big girl now.
Love you always, siok yin.
~ Just for you ~
